Eight sweet months

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On June 17th, Emmy turned 8 months old.  It is so hard to believe our little girl is getting close to turning 1 year!  I have loved this past month so much and enjoyed watching Emmy grow.  Emmy had a wonderful month while mommy completed her OB/GYN rotation in Smithfield.  It was such an amazing experience to deliver 15 babies into the world, and each one of them reminded me of the day Emmy was born.  It was such a sacred day, and one filled with so much joy.  I have her birth story written, but just don’t know if I will ever have the courage to post it.  Some intimate details, like how Emmy was born, are just too precious.  I feel the need to guard and protect their perfect memories, saved for me and my little family alone to enjoy.  And, I feel the same protective nature for the perfect memories I have of each of those sweet babies I was honored to delivered. They brought me SO MUCH joy over the course of five weeks!

So yes, I’m searching for a job in women’s health.  But, that search and all it entails is for another blog post altogether. Back to Emmy.  :) She had a HUGE MILESTONE this month!  Our precious Emerson Mae started CRAWLING!!!!!  Just days after turning 8 months, she was off to the races!  It was a bit of a slow start to begin with, but with each attempt she got faster and faster until now she is a crawling MACHINE.  It was so fun to watch the evolution of learning to crawl to crawling, because she would get so frustrated by knowing she was SO CLOSE and then she was so happy once she figured it out!  She would smile and giggle and dart across the room in seconds.

Because she started crawling, she also started losing some of her little baby fat. :(  I am disappointed by this, but I know she is growing into a little girl and I am ok with that.  I know she is going to be a handful in the coming months, but she hasn’t exactly been a cakewalk this whole time!  She is a determined, some what stubborn, but very loving little girl.  So I am excited to see her personality growing every single day!

This month we celebrated Father’s day and Emmy’s first fourth of July.  We headed to the beach for July 4th and came back just in time for me to start a rotation in the Emergency Department.  She loved her time at the beach as always.  We also took Emmy to one of our favorite restaurants, Southern Exposure, for the first time.  She lovvvvveeeeeeed the mashed potatoes!  We went in celebration of my parent’s 42nd wedding anniversary!  I can’t wait for me and Dustin to celebrate 42 years. :)  We are well on our way seeing as how we met 10 years ago today! ;)

Emmy still hasn’t got anymore teeth yet but we expect some to peek through any day. She has become a pro at waving hello and goodbye and she has conquered the words “dada” and “baba” though we are still working on “mama.”  She does this hilarious motorboating noise with her mouth and anytime you do the same to her she will repeat it back to you.  She is starting to develop a little shyness around new people or people she has not seen in a while and can get some stranger anxiety as well.  I don’t mind this so much since she clings to me and hugs my neck for all she is worth when she gets nervous. :) I gladly take the hugs, but know we have to encourage her to not be afraid of others when she is with us.

Since she started crawling, she is exploring more than ever.  And she is SO smart.  In the first three or four days that she started crawling, I probably said the word “No no” more than I have ever in my entire life.  She is definitely learning the meaning of this word.  She is learning so much about how to manipulate objects and loves mundane things like wooden spoons, tupperware, and plastic cups much more than her toys.  She also recently started protesting diaper changes. Like screeching cries, turning over and refusing to roll back over, to allow us to finish changing her while basically being very uncooperative.  My mom asked one of the daycare teachers if she had begun acting out like this for them, and they said “Oh, yes, she did that couple times.” So my mom asked how they managed to deal with it, and Ms. Eula said very simply “Well, you tell her NO.”  My mom and I laughed because that seemed very obvious and we felt silly we had put up with her shenanigans for several days.  The next diaper change when she started rolling over, we very sternly put her on her back and said “NO Emmy” and she started up at us with the most puzzled look on her face, as if to say, “How do YOU know that word, too?!?!”.  We thought it was so funny!  She quit acting out immediately and we proceeded to change her diaper in peace…  Gotta love those daycare ladies! :)

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EM @ 8 Months

Weight: 21 lbs (down 1.5 lbs since crawling!) :(

Firsts: Crawling!  She also enjoyed eating at Southern Exposure for the first time, and she tried lots of new foods including fresh corn, fresh figs, macaroni and cheese, and watermelon.

Sizes: Still in 12-18 months clothes. Diapers: Size 5

Likes: Her new found freedom in crawling!  She also loves her new pink swing her granddaddy got for her.  They could spend hours and hours swinging together.  She loves being outdoors in general and will crawl to her stroller when she is ready for her evening stroll.  She has us all wrapped around her tiny little finger.

Dislikes: Diaper changes (still), hearing the word NO, and peaches.  She is NOT a peach fan!

 

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Seven Months

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On May 17, Emmy turned seven months old! Here’s a recap from her seventh month!

A lot of fun things happened from May 17-June 17 for our big girl. One of the biggest accomplishments this month had to be the successful arrival of her bottom TWO front teeth! Yes, our first “tooth” was actually a combo. Emmy is always outdoing herself it would seem. We really struggled (really) with cutting these two teeth but after they got here, Emmy was back to her happy-go-lucky self. It was a rough few days, but we made it. Emmy is such a sweet baby, so any time she isn’t sweet and laid back, we know instantly something is off. She was so fussy for three days before her teeth appeared. She was fussy off and on for much longer than that, but for a solid three constant days she was really out of it. We tried everything we could to calm her. Tylenol, warm baths, frozen teething rings, frozen bagels, cold wash clothes, all natural teething tablets, watching lots of Mickey Mouse… nothing seemed to work. We even decided to bring her blue kiddie pool into our living room so she could have as many toys in the pool as she wanted to make her little self feel better. We gave in to her every wish. Nothing seemed to help but time. Eventually, she woke up one morning and showed off her two new pearly whites and things have been relatively back to normal ever since!

We spent our Memorial Day weekend and the week following at Dustin’s grandparent’s beach house. It was Emmy’s first time being at the beach house with everyone there and she really loved it. You can read more about it in my last post. I loved having the week off to spend some time with my sweet little family. We took Emmy to a new surf shop on the island while we were there and they happened to have a big display of Mickey Mouse stuffed animals. As soon as she spotted one, she started grunting and kicking her feet and reaching as far as she could, trying to get her hands on one of those Mickeys. It was the first time she has ever reacted that way towards a toy. Needless to say we came home with a new, stuffed Mickey Mouse that night!

As soon as the weekend ended, we started back to rotations and I headed to the OB/GYN office where I was blessed with an amazing experience. I got to see lots of mommies growing beautiful babies and even delivered 15 babies myself. I assisted with 4 c-sections as well. It was a wonderful, albeit emotionally draining, experience. I am now starting in the Emergency Department for the next five weeks and will get one more week-long break at the end before my final THREE rotations before Graduation!!

Emmy Mae at 7 Months from Regina Gurley on Vimeo.

EM @ 7 Months

Weight: 22lbs, 5.5oz

Firsts: Emmy cut her first two teeth! She also had lots of firsts at the beach house for memorial day: First boat ride, PaPa’s homemade peach ice cream, first trip to Sear’s Landing, first time eating MeMa’s mashed potatoes and sweet tea/lemonade.   Daddy had also been dying to give her raw lemon for the first time. I think he built it up a little too much – our girl had no problem chewing on that lemon and didn’t make a single funny face! She was all business. :)

Sizes: We are hanging out in 12-18 months clothing now. I can tell she is starting to slim down a little bit and is looking more and more like a toddler and less and less like a baby…already! Diapers: Size 5

Likes: Pretending to crawl. She is getting SO close. One of the moms of another baby in her room at daycare said her baby is starting to pretend to crawl “like Emmy does.” She has quite a bit of influence, already! ;) She also loves watching Mickey Mouse. Emmy is a BIG fan of little children/toddlers. Anytime we go somewhere and she spots little kids, she starts kicking her legs frantically with excitement and she instantly becomes enthralled with them. It seems to be intensified when she is around her big cousin Karis and big cousin Dane. It is so sweet to watch all of them interact together!

Dislikes: Diaper changes. She just doesn’t have time for anything like that! She instantly starts to cry when we lay her down to change her. Hoping this phase ends soon… :)

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This fall marks five years since Dustin and I began dating. Shortly after we started dating, Dustin asked me to go with him to his grandparent’s beach house in Surf City one weekend. He was so eager for me to go, I finally agreed to take some time off from work and we drove down one weekend in October when the weather was just starting to turn cool and well past the beach going season. I’ll never forget that first trip to the beach house.

As we walked up the steps to the house, he stopped just outside the door and said “Oh, by the way, you may want to know who you’re about to meet. My grandparents Mema and Papa, Mrs. Snow who is like another grandparent. Also, my mom Kay, cousin Jerri-Rae, her husband Robbie, my aunt Brenda, uncle Jerry, and my niece Karis. And my sister Lindsey and her husband Jarred. And maybe my other cousin Luke and his wife Jamie.”

OH BY THE WAY?! I thought. He couldn’t have mentioned I was about to meet his ENTIRE family on the two hour drive there? We had only been seeing each other for about two months at that point, so this was kind of a big deal. I stammered out a weak “O…K…” as we stepped inside. Lucky for me, they were all there! Literally, right there. Sitting at the kitchen table eating dinner as we walked through the door. Mema and Papa jumped up to greet me. I went to shake Papa’s hand and instead, he hugged me. He told me “Sorry if you don’t like hugs, but we hug people around here.” I instantly settled in for one of many delicious meals made by Mema and completely forgot how nervous I was just moments before.

I’ve always said that weekend was one of the weekends that changed everything for me. I loved seeing Dustin interact with his family, and it was evident he was in his element at the beach house. We had a great time fishing, eating, and enjoying each other’s company that weekend. More importantly, though, I caught glimpses of what my future might be like with this amazing man. And I fell for him hook, line and sinker. I couldn’t get enough of the love this family shared, and seeing Dustin so happy there was the best part. His kindness and genuine concern for his grandparents melted my heart. He was so sweet and so thoughtful. And let’s be honest – he was always sweet and thoughtful to me, but we were dating at the time. I was supposed to be treated sweetly and thoughtfully! How he acted towards his family showed me that his kind and thoughtful nature was truly sincere.

I also vividly remember how well he loved his beautiful niece Karis. She was just six years old at the time, and her wavy blond hair and constant smile was contagious. He acted like he was just smitten with her, and her with him. He picked her up and gently tossed her tiny little body in the air above his head over and over again. Hearing her giggle float through the air was the sweetest sound. Again, I was weak in the knees from glimpses of all that could be with his great man. That weekend was just the beginning of our story and I knew it was going to be a good one.

Fast forward to this Memorial Day weekend when I made the two hour drive to that same beach house once more with my sweet Dustin, now my husband of three years. This time, however, was even more special than our first trip. This time we had our own darling baby girl in tow, visiting the beach house for her very first time.

Yet again, that beautiful home on Sea Manor Lane gifted me with glimpses of an amazing life ahead with my sweet Dustin. Dustin was just as excited to introduce our sweet Emmy Mae to the easy going, love-filled life at the beach house as he was to share it with me that weekend five years ago. I was amazed that even though Dustin and I have been married for three years and we welcomed our sweet girl over seven months ago, I was able to see him in a new light at the beach house. And it was glorious. He was just so elated to share the memories he loved and cherished so dearly growing up with a little girl of his own, and it filled me with joy. He was so excited for her first boat ride. Her first sips of Mema’s lemonade. Her first bites of Papa’s homemade peach ice cream. Her first time visiting the Point, and her first swim in the ocean.  Her first visit to Sear’s Landing. Her first nap under Aunt Brenda’s tree. Her first walk around Atkinson Point. Her first night sleeping with the windows open and an ocean breeze so heavenly no restless baby could resist falling fast to sleep.

I always knew the beach house was a special place for my husband, but I had no idea how special he would make it for our daughter. He was so proud to show her off and to give her the experience he loved so much growing up.

On this Father’s day, I am reminded of these moments and all the ups and downs we’ve encountered in the past that brought us to today. I am beyond grateful to be married to someone who is so present, so loving, and so meant to be a husband and father. He is more than I could ever ask for – not just for me, but for my daughter as well. There are SO many more examples I could give of all the wonderful, sacrificial acts of love that my husband shows to me and our baby on a daily basis.  I can remember so many times shortly after giving birth that I was in awe of the man I married and how strong he was for the both of us.  I give all the glory and praise to my Heavenly Father for bringing Dustin into my life, and also for weekends at the beach house filled with glimpses of all that HE has in store for us. Happy Father’s Day to my love! Emmy and I cannot thank you enough and we do not deserve you, but we are so glad you are ours.

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With love from your gurleygirls

 

 

Three Months!

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I can’t believe this girl is 1/4 through her first year of life! WHAT!  Seems crazy.  We have survived the transition back to work/school, although my current rotation schedule is more like “rotation lite” since I only go three days a week.  The other two days I am working on writing my master’s thesis so that by the end of this rotation, I will have completed two rotations during one five-week rotation block!  Crossing my fingers that actually happens, anyway….

On to the important stuff. Emmy is three months old. I love/hate this all at the same time. Crazy? Yep.  She is such a DOLL at this age!! We fall a little more in love with her every second.  She has been so sweet.  When we wake her up in the mornings and unwrap her double swaddle (if you are a new mom and don’t know what that is, google it — it’s a life saver) she gives us the SWEETEST little smile!  Just melts your heart completely.

She is developing her little personality every day. When she is unhappy about something, she fusses and arches her back so much until she almost slips right out of your arms. She is silly!  She has developed a fondness for her fingers and has started refusing paci in exchange for her fingers. We also think she may be teething a little since her drooling has been out of control and she lovvveeees a cold teething ring.

Here’s a few 3 month stats –

EM @ Three Months

Weight: 14lbs, 12oz

Firsts: Emmy saw her first snow fall a few days ago, figured out how to grab/kick at stuff on her activity mat, and she found out Riley is really funny. She loves seeing him fetch his toys and return them to us – gives us all a great laugh to hear her chuckle at her older brother!

Sizes: Wearing size 6-9 months, though she can wear some 6 months pieces if they are footless. She is getting long! Diaper – size 3 (omg!)

Likes: Her daddy!  This girl is SMITTEN. When he comes home, you’d think Jesus returned. :) She gets so tickled over him! I love it so much.  She also really loves her night time routine where he reads a book to her, changes her, and swaddles her without any problems and she falls fast asleep. I promise if I attempted to do those things, she would bend over backwards to get down/fuss/cry and be all around against it.  To say she is a Daddy’s girl would be an understatement… :) She also LOVES watching Duck Dynasty and Mecum Auto Auction.  I cannot explain either of those. Hah!

Dislikes: Getting INTO the car seat (once she is in and we are moving, she’s great!), taking her bottle away mid-feed for pacing or a burp. This girl does NOT want anything to come between her and her milk! :)

collage1Clockwise from top left: Daddy and Emmy on Christmas Eve and Emmy is unnnhappy about her bow I just put on her, Emmy and Daddy on a walk in her Rudolph hat, Mommy and Emmy selfie, and Emmy on the changing table staring at her BFF.

collage2Love the Lara Casey print above EM’s crib, Emmy and Daddy’s nightly routine, no that isn’t a sausage — it’s Emmy’s arm!, and finally my cute little pudgey pants

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My girl…

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…I just love her so much. How am I ever going to go back to rotations and leaving her for 10+ hours a day? Go away, January 6th.. I always knew you were coming, but kept pretending you were still far, far away.   Now I am staring it straight in the eyes and don’t know what to do with myself.  This has to be one of the hardest things I’ll go through as a mom… right? RIGHT!?

Next week is going to be rough.